Masturbation is a topic many don't feel comfortable talking about, despite how many people actually pleasure themselves. I remember being a student at UHCL in 2007 and I said to my English class "Masturbation is the key to a successful sex life. If you can't please you, how can you expect someone else to?" I still believe those words. Women masturbate. We use our fingers or sex toys. That is perfectly healthy. We should be in touch with our bodies. We should know how to bring ourselves to orgasm. Think of how many women are dissatisfied and sexually frustrated because they aren't being pleased down there! Child please! Touch your body and get to know YOU! I first discovered pleasure down there when I was 10. I hurt myself on my bicycle seat- a banana seat- and I told my mom. She, innocently, said "go put some Vaseline on it", which was very common to do and say. Oh, the discovery!! But I never talked to anyone about it. Matter of fact, I was asha...