You and I have never met, never talked, and we've never even spoken. But we have something in common. Something we share: We both love the same man. I never have and will not apologize for how I feel. I love who I love. And my feelings for him are mine to own. My loving him doesn't take away from how you feel about him. Nor is it a threat to your relationship. But I won't ever deny allowing myself my truth. Women are taught, from a young age, that we are competing against each other. That is as sad as it is disheartening. There is no shortage of love. And there is nothing wrong with two people loving the same, one, person. But we live in a pro monogamous world, so anything "other" is frowned upon. And because I love him, I can let go of any selfish desires. I truly hope he is happy and safe. And I hope you treat him well, as I hope he does the same with you. I hope you never see me as the enemy. Never think of me as someone who has a hidden agenda. And unt