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Self Confidence

This week's group topic was "Self Confidence". And I saw that topic play out multiple times, this week. It's not just girls who struggle with it. Women, boys, and men, (I'm sure they do)too. I had a conversation with a 4th grade boy who thinks everyone is against him. His words spoke of a broken spirit. He lacks self confidence. There was a Middle school girl who was feeling self conscious about her hair. I helped her fix it into a style she would be okay with. I totally felt her pain. I, being a natural hair wearer, struggle with taming my mane, too. (I'm ready to cut mine all off, again). Self confidence is a reoccurring (though rare) issue I, too, struggle with. It's important to have conversations about these things. So I created a page of confidence boosting quotes and handed them out. I am confident in universal law-whomever needs it will receive it.


~Nicole

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